How to Help a Loved One
Do
•    Learn about eating disorders
•    Find an appropriate time and place to talk to the individual in private
•    Communicate your concerns
•    Stress the importance of professional, specialized help
•    Express your continued support


Don’t
•    Don’t be scared
•    Don’t engage in a power struggle and/or try to force the individual to eat
•    Don’t attempt to solve his/her problems
•    Don’t give any advice about calorie/food intake, weight, appearance, etc.
•    Be available and don’t expect to be perfect
•    Don’t promise to keep it a secret